Thursday, October 4, 2012

More reflecting... Another list...

As I sit and look back over my life... I realize that all of the good I have in my life right now... are all a result of changes I have made in my past.

I have never really been a huge fan of change.  Like many ppl, I have fought change tooth and nail!!  I have always liked my "comfort zone" and prefered  to stay in it.
BUT... over the past few days... I am really seeing that once I muster up the courage to make a change, as my history has shown, things always end up better!!

Soooo... as per what I have been doing all week... I started a "list"... of how "CHANGE" can/has benefited me.  This way, whenever I try to resist change... I have a reminder of why it is good!!! 
(I am needing this list right now... as I am trying really hard to make some changes... and with the baby steps I am taking, I am already seeing positive results)

*PERSONAL GROWTH  This one is my favorite.  Change allows me to grow and learn.  I discover new aspects of who I am.  And even if a change doesnt get me to exactly where I wanted to be... it taught me a lesson or two in the process.

*FLEXIBILITY  Making changes often, leads me to be more flexible and adapt to new situations better each time...expecially when something unexpected happens.

*IMPROVEMENT  I am always looking for ways to improve... my life, our situation, my home, etc  None of it would happen without "change"

*VALUES  Change always forces me to take a look at myself and my life... a different perspective sometimes... which helps me to reevaluate my values.

*THE TRICKLE DOWN EFFECT  Big, huge changes are difficult for me... soooo one small change will lead to another and another... eventually I will get to where I want to be. 

*STRENGTH  Not all changes lead to a big, happy picture... they can sometimes bring a few hardships.  Lord knows I have had my fair share.  But what doesnt kill me makes me stronger!!

*OPPORTUNITIES  I dont have a crystal ball.  I have no idea what is around every turn.  What I do know is that every turn I make there will be new and exciting experiences and opportunities.

*NEW BEGINNINGS  Change = The closing of one chapter and the opening of a new chapter.

*ROUTINE  Well, after awhile routines get boring and make life uninteresting.  I sure dont want that!

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